tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post5309577371068315416..comments2023-12-14T13:49:25.768-08:00Comments on This Gay Relationship: ReviewRick Modienhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02157314737543591048noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-7081753674555648192011-05-03T19:48:44.234-07:002011-05-03T19:48:44.234-07:00Nice comment, Katie. I love the guardian angel st...Nice comment, Katie. I love the guardian angel story. I see how you would gather strength from your uncle, especially since he was gay himself. <br /><br />I appreciate your trust and your interest in my blog as a source of advice and information. If you ever have a specific question you think I could help you with, just let me know. That invitation is open to any and all of my readers.<br /><br />Thanks again for your comment. I look forward to hearing from you again and often.Rick Modienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02157314737543591048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-35188781752237632002011-05-03T17:05:20.331-07:002011-05-03T17:05:20.331-07:00Great to hear from you again, Donald.
And just w...Great to hear from you again, Donald. <br />And just when I thought no one was much interested in my "Thoughts for the Day." I haven't received a lot of feedback on them, but your comment tells me maybe I was wrong.<br />I think a lot of my readers probably appreciate the shorter posts, so, as I find something quick to share, I'll be sure to publish it here.<br />Thanks for coming back and for your comment.Rick Modienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02157314737543591048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-19341843928250860422011-05-03T16:44:06.711-07:002011-05-03T16:44:06.711-07:00I'm glad you are back Rick. I checked for your...I'm glad you are back Rick. I checked for your posts everyday. I especially like your 'thoughts for the day'. Keep them coming!<br /><br /><br />DonaldAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-3024998014455581412011-05-03T14:15:37.556-07:002011-05-03T14:15:37.556-07:00Sarah, I see your point, and it's a good one. ...Sarah, I see your point, and it's a good one. I hadn't thought of that. I know if I were in your shoes, I'd feel the same way. Thanks for helping me to understand. <br /><br />And thanks for sharing the little bit you did about your experience so far. In time, I think being the "mom" figure might work to your advantage. I bet a number of the kids could use a mom in their lives and, at some point, once trust is built, will look to you for that kind of support. <br /><br />Sounds like it's tough to become one of the gang, but I'm sure it will be worth the effort. Hang in there. Your enthusiasm comes through, and I have no doubt this will be a great experience, for you and for them.Rick Modienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02157314737543591048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-6728949696673813382011-05-03T13:35:48.461-07:002011-05-03T13:35:48.461-07:00Hi Rick, I see what you're saying, but think I...Hi Rick, I see what you're saying, but think I'd rather just share here, because I don't want to seem like I'm taking advantage of them letting me be a part of their group, it just seems too invasive to do it on an ongoing basis. I was going to email you, but here I am, so...<br /><br />There isn't too much to tell, to be honest, other than that the last couple of times, I don't feel like such an outsider anymore. It's a very close-knit group, and I was very quiet at first, because they all knew each other, and I just thought it would be better than trying to force the "get to know you" issue. I'm quite a bit older than the other facilitators, more like a "mom" figure than a friend, I guess, so at first I felt a bit out of it, to be honest. But, every time I go, I find myself talking to a different person, and learning about what they do or like. The thing is, these are kids who have made to decision to go to an LGBT youth group, so they're pretty confident already. They really care about each other, and welcome new kids, it's wonderful to see. Just a very nice, down to earth group. I look forward to every meeting. I am SO glad I started doing this!!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07590889190847673743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-11043829506168813612011-05-03T12:26:51.470-07:002011-05-03T12:26:51.470-07:00@Sarah: Thanks so much for your support and encou...@Sarah: Thanks so much for your support and encouragement. You know, I just wish I could reach more people. If I can have this kind of impact on a few, imagine what I could do to help even more. Perhaps in time. <br /><br />I know my blog receives an average of one hundred page views per day, from all around the world. I don't hear from everyone, but I have to believe many return readers draw something from my words and just don't write to tell me about it. Of course, I'd love to hear from everyone, but I know that's not realistic. Those who I do hear from, though, really make my day.<br /><br />I'm excited to hear about your experiences with the youth group. Here's an idea. You have a blog you haven't used in a while. Why don't you write about it there, on an ongoing basis, so all of us can watch and learn? Just an idea. I hate to see your blog go to waste. <br /><br />@Doug: I wish my blog had been around when I was in my teens and twenties, too. That said, I'm always concerned today's LGBTQ youth won't think what I write is relevant to their lives, or no one will want to pay attention to an older gay man, with an opinion about what being gay means, and how best to live a gay life. That's why it's so gratifying when I receive positive feedback from readers, both young and not so young. <br /><br />As always, I so much appreciate all of your kind words, and, in this case, your acknowledgement of Chris's role in what I do. Not only does he support us financially (which allows me to devote so much time to this blog), but also he supports all of my efforts to reach out to other people, including writing about very personal aspects of our relationship. What's the expression? Behind every successful man....<br /><br />Many thanks to you both for your comments. You are the best!Rick Modienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02157314737543591048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-21992385543021500822011-05-03T10:27:03.771-07:002011-05-03T10:27:03.771-07:00Rick, I wish your blog had been around when I was ...Rick, I wish your blog had been around when I was in my teens and twenties! I imagine most gay youth lack gay mentors in their lives, and have no where to turn for perspective and advice. Most gay sites and/or blogs do not provide the warm, personal, and sensible thoughts that you offer. Kudos to you for taking the time and effort to help so many with such dedication!! (and kudos to Chris for being the other crucial part of your team : )Doughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05931170635280052744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-69416713284783184382011-05-03T06:46:15.102-07:002011-05-03T06:46:15.102-07:00Wow, Rick, you couldn't ask for more, really. ...Wow, Rick, you couldn't ask for more, really. People who see your site as a refuge, and as a place that builds them up. Clearly, you're on the right track. I was just at the youth group last night (I'll email today), and reading what people have said about your blog reminds me of that youth space: These kids who are possibly not able to express themselves in their schools (they are high school and uni age) sitting laughing, chatting with each other, a couple of them paired up, arms around each other, knowing that they don't have to worry when they do that. There's something very special and comforting about a place where you can be yourself. Kudos to you!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07590889190847673743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-41302065825430865732011-05-02T22:57:34.071-07:002011-05-02T22:57:34.071-07:00Thank you so much for saying that, Strange Boy (fe...Thank you so much for saying that, Strange Boy (feels so weird addressing you that way). I sincerely hope you find something here that is both helpful and uplifting.Rick Modienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02157314737543591048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-64265687189103612432011-05-02T22:41:41.818-07:002011-05-02T22:41:41.818-07:00I'm glad I found your blog.I'm glad I found your blog.A Strange Boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10774131212842711376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-60385498328437414592011-05-02T20:10:44.418-07:002011-05-02T20:10:44.418-07:00You're so cute, Heather. Thanks for the senti...You're so cute, Heather. Thanks for the sentiment. I appreciate it.Rick Modienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02157314737543591048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-78088370370143926462011-05-02T17:44:03.335-07:002011-05-02T17:44:03.335-07:00♥♥chaoticGRRLhttp://www.chaoticgrrl.comnoreply@blogger.com