Here's the title from one of the personal essays in Savage and Miller's It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living (p. 228). I couldn't have said this any better or more succinctly.
Let's all receive and live this message:
"Haters Can't Hate Someone Who Loves Themselves, And If They Do, Who Cares."
Thank you, Lynn Breedlove.